How can i be stronger!!?? ?

My husband has been really mean latey and I am scared I marriage ia all but over. Well whenever he calls me names, i bust out crying and all he says is i am too sensitive! I don't curse so I don't curse him back out or call him names so i just cry. I want to be stronger and show him he does not get to me but it's hard. like tonight when he getx home from work. before he left he was hateful and called me a name and when he left of course i was crying, but when he comes in tongight i wanna just be happy, but just becuase i look happy i don't wnat him to come up and try to hug me or touch me. and if I am still mad he will try to turn it around on me, I have been through this pattern so many times. What do I do?